# Cuddling I want a to cuddle more. #Unfinished ?Maybe I want a dog or more cats? ## Cuddling with friends - Has been enjoyable - Definitely easier when tripping - I have found it awkward to ask friends if they want to cuddle - I think this is because I know that the dominant narrative around cuddling is that it is something done in romantic relationships. - Certainly don't want to make friends feel awkward, thinking I might stop asking and seek it other places ## History cuddling - Realizing #Self/IWantMore - First time cuddling with platonic friend was at 32 - Cuddling with the little kids in my life has been awesome - Cuddles the occasional dog - First time cuddling was ~16 with a partner - Cuddling with [[cats]] - Have no memories of cuddling as a child ## Related - [[cats]] and [[dogs]] - [[Children]] - [[hugs]] - [[bonobos]] - [[play fighting]] - [[physical intimacy]] - [[Trampoline]] - [[MDMA]] - [[cuddle party]] - [[massage]]