## I have consistently tended to not enjoy family events. - The food tends to be unhealthy. - The children are less fun or I don't get time with them - My siblings are less enjoyable or I don't get time with them - Any cats or dogs are less around - Group conversation tends towards the boring and shitty - Feelings of anxiousness and emptiness ### ex. 2022 Thanks Giving (even without full crew there) - conversation on taxes and hating homeless - salty, fatty, sugary food - less than 20 words to brother or sister - environment such that playing with children a lot does not work ## I would suggest spending family time separately - If you want to see them, see them. - No need to see them in the shitty situation ## How to make it better - Make sure there are abundant healthy food options - Pre-register when I'll be leaving - Pre-register that I'll be eating healthy - Bike there ## Related - [[my family]]