# how to onboard new friends
- Intermittent contact plus time seems to result in the stablest of friendships.
- Adventures seem to solidify strong friendships.
## Things that don't seem to work
- invites to events like dancing (at least for most people)
## Misc
Remember that I meet more lovely people than I have time to become friends with so I shouldn't feel to badly about not being able to onboard everyone.