# Infidelity I was cheated on once, it hurt a lot. After a long time I forgave them because I began to understand that it needed to happen in order for the relationship to end. I think before it happened the relationship desperately needed attention and it wasn't getting that attention, so critical actions were taken, forcing a conclusion. I wish we'd be communicative enough to either fix things or break up without the mess, but I get why it happened and hope they don't feel bad about it. I've never cheated and don't ever want to be a in a situation where I would, that being said, I understand why others might. (ex. you are stuck in the relationship for one reason or another, such as kids, but your needs aren't being met) I get crushing on others, we are all full of so much love and we don't get to choose who makes our hearts beat. Pushing down those feelings seems unwise. I've had little crushes on people. I feel like its a sign that my heart is working. The world is full of lovely people. Some beauty demands that it be seen. Struggling? Pray or eat Kelloggs :p ## Related - [[relationships]]