# smile file See #SmileFile and [[I love myself]] I have missed so much... - at growth 2025 cuddle puddle is that the em - - - 2025-03-07 - [[Caleb]] said I was one of the two most important people in their life - 2024-10-08 - [[Penelope]] and [[Matilda - Child]] so excited to see me - 2024-10-07 - Ali really liking the massage and Ella asking for one - 2024-10-06sun - Olivia saying she was vibing on me, that when ever she looked over I was doing something sexy - 2024-10-04fri - Olivia really really liking massage and others asking for one - 2024-10- - 2024-07-20 - Nico called me a softie - I have undoubtedly missed stuff - Group of friends said lovely things I cannot remember - 2024-04-28 - Asked if I danced professionally - 2024-04-21 - Asked if danced professionally - 2024-04-22ish - Described as "stubbornly whimsicle" - 2024-03-17 - Text from ?Milena and ? at [[The Reunion - Coffee Shop]] - 2024-02-? - Jay saying I "moved nimbly" - ?2023 - "Do all the suburbs have magical Em's in them?" - 2024-03-07 I heard a few people describe me as magic - 2024-01-15ish - Perfectly sober, someone in the club asked me if I was on molly - 2023-12-27 - Ellis, gave me a headbut hug - 2023-12-14 - Lauren said the way I say "bye" is the best - 2023-12-09 - Someone said I feel comfortable - 2023-10-26 - A squirrel took the nut I was kicking down a path - 2023-10-23 - Someone asked me if I had been a dancer/gymnastics b/c of my movement in improv - A bunch of people saying I give good hugs - I learned that G likes my business card - 2023-07-00 - "who 's got Em, he's our biggest threat" - Jerry during ultimate frisbee match - Jemma - My grandmother after a lifetime of saying she didn't have favorites, said I was her favorite the last time I saw her. It's entirely possibly she said it to the other kids too, either way, it makes me smile. a friend said that I look like I'm on a drug when dancing (I was sober and they meant it as a compliment), it does feel like a drug #SmileFile - My old cat Soya woke me up by doing the thing that cats do when they knock stuff off ledges. She knocked an open and very cold metal water bottle on to my head that woke me up with cold water. I remember smiling because she did it. - When I was like 13ish a girl said I had soft hands, I took this a positive thing and remember it so many years later. (I then avoided labor to callous them for as long as possible, possibly for other reasons) - Milo said I bring an amazing emotional intelligence to the work (March 2022) ## Related - [[narrative therapy]] - [[helpful narratives]] - [[Memory]] - [[friends]]