# Should I stay or should I go? Occasionally not sure how to answer this #Thought/Question. Also... widen your options, regardless of staying or going, there is right now that you can pay attention to and experience. I have a feeling like the wise #Thought/Heuristic might be to tend wards leaving if you are asking yourself this question. You cannot uneat cake, but you can always come back for more cake and missing cake can be itself be a sweet experience. Some notable exceptions - - if you are leaving out of nervousness, it might be better to take some moments and not let that drive you - ex. staying over - ## How to decide... - ## Options... 1) Decide - 2) Dillydally until the decision is made for you - ## Considerations - Cost of staying - Cost of going ### Possible Outcomes - x ## Misc - overstaying your welcome - What would they want? ( #Caution re [[mentalization]]) - What do I want? - Is what I want even possible? - - Where would I go? - Can I come back? - [[faith requires action]] - Why the [[hesitation]]? - [[smart risks]] So lets use right now... - Best case vs worst case and the prediction of odds... - Yeah... lets go! ## Related - [[peak end rule]] - [[travelling]] - [[staying with friends]]