# validation [[caution is advised]] when seeking validation. ## Misc - [[confidence]] does not come from others. - [[feel safe|feeling safe]] does not come from others - You feel how you feel. [[this is how it is|things are how they are]] ## Examples where seeking validation went awry, - slipped disc and back pain - [[arthritis]] - [[tendinitis]] - [[counselling]] - [[coaching]] - trying to find out [[how foods affect me]] - [[conflict resolution]] ## Related - [[attachment is the root of all suffering]] - [[I do not know anyone like me]] - [[practice|everything is practice]] - [[how ever you show up is fine]] - [[confidence|confidence]] - [[narrative]] - [[suggestibility]]